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  • Writer's pictureDorothy Day

It is no use to say that we are born two thousand years too late to give room to Christ. Nor will those who live at the end of the world have been born too late. Christ is always with us, always asking for room in our hearts.


But now it is with the voice of our contemporaries that he speaks, with the eyes of store clerks, factory workers and children that he gazes; with the hands of office workers, slum dwellers and suburban housewives that he gives. It is with the feet of soldiers and tramps that he walks, and with the heart of anyone in need that he longs for shelter. And giving shelter or food to anyone who asks for it, or needs it, is giving it to Christ.


We can do now what those who knew Him in the days of His flesh did. I’m sure that the shepherds did not adore and then go away to leave Mary and her Child in the stable, but somehow found them room, even though what they had to offer might have been primitive enough. All that the friends of Christ did in His life-time for Him we can do. Peter’s mother-in-law hastened to cook a meal for Him, and if anything in the Gospels can be inferred, it is surely that she gave the very best she had, with no thought of extravagance. Matthew made a feast for Him and invited the whole town, so that the house was in an uproar of enjoyment, and the straight-laced Pharisees–the good people–were scandalized. So did Zaccheus, only this time Christ invited Himself and sent Zaccheus home to get things ready. The people of Samaria, despised and isolated, were overjoyed to give Him hospitality, and for days He walked and ate and slept among them. And the loveliest of all relationships in Christ’s life, after His relationship with his Mother, is His friendship with Martha, Mary and Lazarus and the continual hospitality He found with them–for there was always a bed for Him there, always a welcome, always a meal. It is a staggering thought that there were once two sisters and a brother whom Jesus looked on almost as His family and where He found a second home, where Martha got on with her work, bustling round in her house-proud way, and Mary simply sat in silence with Him.


If we hadn’t got Christ’s own words for it, it would seem raving lunacy to believe that if I offer a bed and food and hospitality for Christmas–or any other time, for that matter–to some man, woman or child, I am replaying the part of Lazarus or Martha or Mary and that my guest is Christ. There is nothing to show it, perhaps. There are no haloes already glowing round their heads–at least none that human eyes can see. It is not likely that I shall be vouchsafed the vision of Elizabeth of Hungary, who put the leper in her bed and later, going to tend him, saw no longer the leper’s stricken face, but the face of Christ. The part of a Peter Claver, who gave a stricken Negro his bed and slept on the floor at his side, is more likely to be ours. For Peter Claver never saw anything with his bodily eyes except the exhausted black faces of the Negroes; He had only faith in Christ’s own words that these people were Christ. And when the Negroes he had induced to help him once ran from the room, panic-stricken before the disgusting sight of some sickness, he was astonished. “You mustn’t go,” he said, and you can still hear his surprise that anyone could forget such a truth; “You mustn’t leave him–it is Christ.”


Some time ago I saw the death notice of a sergeant-pilot who had been killed on active service. After the usual information, a message was added which, I imagine, is likely to be imitated. It said that anyone who had ever known the dead boy would always be sure of a welcome at his parents’ home. So, even now that the war is over, the father and mother will go on taking in strangers for the simple reason that they will be reminded of their dead son by the friends he made.


That is rather like the custom that existed among the first generations of Christians, when faith was a bright fire that warmed more than those who kept it burning. In every house then a room was kept ready for any stranger who might ask for shelter; it was even called “the strangers’ room”: and this not because these people, like the parents of the dead airman, thought they could trace something of someone they loved in the stranger who used it, not because the man or woman to whom they gave shelter reminded them of Christ, but because–plain and simple and stupendous fact–he was Christ.


It would be foolish to pretend that it is easy always to remember this. If everyone were holy and handsome, with “alter Christus” shining in neon lighting from them, it would be easy to see Christ in everyone. If Mary had appeared in Bethlehem clothed, as St. John says, with the sun, a crown of twelve stars on her head and the moon under her feet, then people would have fought to make room for her. But that was not God’s way for her nor is it Christ’s way for Himself now when He is disguised under every type of humanity that treads the earth.


To see how far one realizes this, it is a good thing to ask honestly what you would do, or have done, when a beggar asked at your house for food. Would you–or did you–give it on an old cracked plate, thinking that was good enough? Do you think that Martha and Mary thought that the old and chipped dish was good for their guest?


In Christ’s human life there were always a few who made up for the neglect of the crowd.


The shepherds did it, their hurrying to the crib atoned for the people who would flee from Christ.


The wise men did it; their journey across the world made up for those who refused to stir one hand’s breadth from the routine of their lives to go to Christ. Even the gifts that the wise men brought have in themselves an obscure recompense and atonement for what would follow later in this Child’s life. For they brought gold, the king’s emblem, to make up for the crown of thorns that He would wear; they offered incense, the symbol of praise, to make up for the mockery and the spitting; they gave Him myrrh, to heal and soothe, and He was wounded from head to foot and no one bathed his wounds. The women at the foot of the cross did it too, making up for the crowd who stood by and sneered.


We can do it too, exactly as they did. We are not born too late. We do it by seeing Christ and serving Christ in friends and strangers, in everyone we come in contact with. While almost no one is unable to give some hospitality or help to others, those for whom it is really impossible are not debarred from giving room to Christ, because, to take the simplest of examples, in those they live with or work with is Christ disguised. All our life is bound up with other people; for almost all of us happiness and unhappiness are conditioned by our relationship with other people. What a simplification of life it would be if we forced ourselves to see that everywhere we go is Christ, wearing out socks we have to darn, eating the food we have to cook, laughing with us, silent with us, sleeping with us.


All this can be proved, if proof is needed, by the doctrines of the Church. We can talk about Christ’s Mystical Body, about the vine and the branches, about the Communion of Saints. But Christ Himself has proved it for us, and no one has to go further than that. For He said that a glass of water given to a beggar was given to Him. He made heaven hinge on the way we act towards Him in his disguise of commonplace, frail and ordinary human beings.


Did you give me food when I was hungry? Did you give me something to drink when I was thirsty? Did you take me in when I was homeless and a stranger? Did you give me clothes when my own were all rags? Did you come to see me when I was sick or in prison or in trouble?


And to those who say, aghast, that they never had a chance to do such a thing, that they lived two thousand years too late, he will say again what they had the chance of knowing all their lives, that if these things were done for the very least of his brethren they were done for Him.


For a total Christian the goad of duty is not needed–always prodding him to perform this or that good deed. It is not a duty to help Christ, it is a privilege. Is it likely that Martha and Mary sat back and considered that they had done all that was expected of them–is it likely that Peter’s mother-in-law grudgingly served the chicken she had meant to keep till Sunday because she thought it was “her duty”? She did it gladly: she would have served ten chickens if she had them.


If that is the way they gave hospitality to Christ it is certain that is the way it should still be given. Not for the sake of humanity. Not because it might be Christ who stays with us, comes to see us, takes up our time. Not because these people remind us of Christ, as those soldiers and airmen remind the parents of their son, but because they are Christ, asking us to find room for Him exactly as He did at the first Christmas.

  • Thomas Frost

I grew up in an inn with three guest rooms and a pub attached; my parents are the owners and the only staff. My everyday life has always been shaped by the provision of hospitality, partly in the direct experience of sharing a roof with guests and partly through the mediation of my parents’ experience of the work. Guests didn’t usually stay longer than one or two nights, driving, cycling or walking around the north of Scotland; the work was to welcome them, feed them, and send them on their way, and then to prepare their room for new guests the same evening. Nonetheless, the guests were never anonymous, and those who were happy gave my parents real joy. The worst came from those who, used to dealing with the impersonality of large businesses with no interests except profit, treated them as adversaries in a transaction in which one party or the other would come out best. But the transaction was always there, even in the friendliest of cases. Every stay ended with a payment for services determined by market rates; the room was then cleaned, and new guests welcomed the same evening. This is the hospitality of the hospitality industry, with its foundation in the transaction.


Since June, I have lived in Giuseppe Conlon House, another house shaped by the provision of hospitality. Our guests don’t pay us, and we only accept as guests those who wouldn’t be able to. We do so in keeping with a tradition of Christian hospitality, which extends back to those who welcomed Jesus and his apostles into their own houses and the diocesan houses of hospitality Peter Maurin read about in the Catholic Encyclopedia. It isn’t difficult to believe that what we do – both those of us who work here, and those who keep the house running with their donations – is the fulfilment of a Christian duty to hospitality.


The initial difficulty for me was to understand how this work, which is of such a different character from that of my parents, could share the same name. How am I to understand the good I can plainly see in my parents’ work in light of its great difference from the form of hospitality here? How is it that their hospitality survives the transaction? About five hundred years ago, Desiderius Erasmus wrote about inns in “Diversoria”, one of his Colloquies – short, light-hearted dialogues for the use of schoolchildren learning Latin. Bertrand and William compare the good inns in Lyons with the bad inns in Germany, providing us today with an idea of what people in a pre-capitalist Christian country ordinarily thought a good inn was like. Most of the points are remarkably similar to what you’d find, in rougher prose, on TripAdvisor – in Lyons the portions are large and the prices low, in Germany the food is overpriced and the dining rooms are cramped and overheated. The most striking praise Bertrand gives the French innkeepers is that “they don't talk to you as if you were perfect Strangers, but as those they have been a long Time acquainted with, and familiar Friends”. He recalls that, at Lyons, “I seemed to be at my own House, and not in a strange Place”. This is exactly the sort of thing that guests at my parents’ inn would say when they were praising it most highly, five hundred years later. The good it identifies is not just that of feeling at home, but of feeling at home where you would not expect to. Hospitality survives the transaction because it is not really involved with the transaction – hospitality is what goes beyond it. It is what you receive over and above your role in the contract. Necessarily, it always comes as a surprise.


The Good Samaritan is one who gives more than he is obliged to. He has no more obligation to the wounded man than do the priest or the Levite - less, in fact, according to the understanding of the time, being a foreigner. It would be very easy for him to walk past and, if challenged on it, say correctly that he was no more than following the precedent set by respectable people with more obligation than himself. His decision to give more than he needed to is itself imposed on Christians by Jesus as a special obligation - “Go, and do thou likewise” (Lk 10:37). Pope Francis in Fratelli Tutti considers the political implications of such an obligation - “the decision to include or exclude those lying wounded along the roadside can serve as a criterion for judging every economic, political, social and religious project”.


In our times, we have become more and more directly in contact with all the rest of humanity as migration and communication have increased – in response, we have created and reinforced more and more means of absolving ourselves of our obligations to our fellow humans by means of national borders and a dehumanising racism. It is ordinary and respectable in our country to believe and say that we have no obligations to those who live outside it or to those who arrive in Britain despite the violent and arbitrary barriers we have created to keep them out. This is what hospitality must overcome in the political sphere. If our country were to adopt such a radical policy it would be doing no more than did the ancient Israelites at such times as they obeyed that beautiful command: “the stranger that dwelleth with you shall be unto you as one born among you, and thou shalt love him as thyself; for ye were strangers in the land of Egypt” (Lev 19:34).


The command is to practice solidarity on the basis of a shared experience of suffering, but to believe that the experience is really shared depends on a basic belief in a common humanity. Hospitality asserts the humanity of the other where it would be easier to deny it.


For Simone Weil, this is “to desire the existence of the other”, and consequently always involves a renunciation of our ordinary desire to assert ourselves wherever we have power – it takes a mental sacrifice to accept the other as an end as much as oneself. There is, therefore, no hospitality in the sort of sanctimonious charity which is only an assertion of our own power to raise up the one who suffers, any more than is in the mere fulfilment of a transaction. As Weil says, “It is not surprising that a man who has bread should give a piece to someone who is starving. What is surprising is that he should be capable of doing so with so different a gesture from that with which we buy an object”. To look at another person in such a way is to look at them like God looks at them. Of course, we're ordinarily incapable of such purity of intention, but we must believe that to perform hospitality to any extent, as a response to the humanity of another, is to participate to some degree in the self-giving love of Jesus on the cross.


What a privilege! And what a wonderful thing for the innkeeper to whom the Good Samaritan brought the wounded man, to be able to participate in his hospitality. Even if he only gave his wounded guest more than usual care, he played a small part in that love which moves the sun and the other stars. It is the same opportunity as we have at Giuseppe Conlon House, and my parents have at their inn, and that all people have in all walks of life whenever they meet another person. It is one of the greatest gifts that God has given us.

  • Writer's picturePeter Maurin

1. The training of social workers

enables them to help people

to adjust themselves

to the existing environment.

 

2. The training of social workers

does not enable them

to help people

to change the environment.

 

3. Social workers

must become social minded

before they can be

critics of the existing environment

and free creative agents

of the new environment.

 

4. In the Houses of Hospitality

social workers can acquire

the art of human contacts

and the social-mindedness

or understanding of social forces

which will make them

critical of the existing environment

and free creative agents

of a new environment.

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